well what has happened in the last month................ house is still under offer - i have had builders round estimating the cost of replacing all the flooring with floorboards and a new heating system. On the first I am so glad that i didnt spend good money on new carpets etc on the second my heating system works perfectly well so why would you want to replace it ........... hey ho their money.......... oooh and i have the surveyor from their mortgage company coming round on monday ............ as i said to my very good friend last night if hes tall, dark, handsome and built like a brick shit house it will be a very long visit .............. well at least until he can find the key ..............

on the matter of the boy ............. he has a sprained shoulder.............. although a number of his friends have suggested this is due to too much self pleasure he is adamant its a rugby injury ................which of course it is .............. as if my little baby would do those other things............. lol

the job front is interesting inasmuch as i am now on gardening leave and therefore busy job hunting ............... i have applied for a couple and will wait and see.......... the house has never looked so tidy .................... and packing for the move is under way ............................. although i do wish those walls would stop jumping out at me

on the man front ................. well what can i say ............. i have given up .................. after many adventures and fun times i am going to resign from the dating world .................. there are many reasons ........................... firstly its all such a strain trying to work out what to wear.............. then getting ready...................... then actually getting there (I always seem to be late) and then there's the do i dotn i like them question especially when they have exagerrated their height or have said they are a fun loving guy and seem to be the most boring person on the planet .............. well for now i am going on a sabbatical and just hoping the one for me just turns up in my life .......................................... well i can dream cant i :)

so to my forever moaning friend i have done an update ....................:)