so we went to the wanstead music in the park and it was quite a good evening. although my wonderful mate thought she would set me up with someone she new - sadly this is not to be. she is quite upset - even more upset that i wouldnt even consider him for a one night stand lol. i had to explain to her several times that there were a number of reasons

1. i didnt think i would be able to carry on a conversation with him for more than about 10 minutes

2. he wasn't really my type in looks

3. he wasnt my type in build (i have always insisted on my men being over 6 foot but have now realised that height isnt everything - but conversation and laughter is)

4. he dotes on his young son and if i am perfectly honest i'm not sure that i want to go out with a man whose only topic of conversation appears to be his son.

so poor cg will have to continue her search for eligible bachelors for me lol. or then again perhaps not